so my bf is joining the marines but when I told him i might join the military he said he ddnt want to have to worry abt me dying. did i miss the memo or something? did i skip a page? did i? bc i think i did. Who said tht he can go but I cant? he asked if my body could handle the training like wtf. I want to be a fucking engineer or a mechanic. how is that even bad. its not like i'll always see combat. jesus christ.