im so fucking sick and tired of one of my 4 irl friends that i actually used to feel like i could say anything too gets scared whenever she mentions how she finds pronouns as "cringe". for context, she said "imagine putting pronouns in your google name" implied at my they/them friend who put "they them" in their google name. this spawned a whole argument as i found that pronouns were just things people wanted or didn't wanna go by. this was 3 weeks ago. 2 weeks ago, i put in the tasks section our names and pronouns for people to know, and i put she/her for my friend who finds them as "cringe". she messaged me saying "remember how i said i found pronouns cringe?" then 1 minute later said "nvm don't wanna start anything" as if i was at fault for not thinking something a part of the world and generally accepted as normal to have and accepted as weird by mainly homophobes yet i know shes straight yet not homophobic, for not finding that cringe

yikes