If //I// say that I'm not a woman currently, I am /not/ a woman.
If //I// say that I'm not agender currently, I am /not/ agender.
If //I// say that I'm not in between agender and a woman currently, I am /not/ in between.
If //I// say that I'm not a man, even though I don't mind being called a boyfriend or a husband, guess what? I am ///not/// a man.
Thanks for coming to my Ted talk.