Ok so im just that type of person that if someone hurts me but in the end they need someone for comfort i would be there for them. Yet when i find old friends that i haven't spoke to in years or what not, i want to be able to have a conversation going. But i started to see a pattern in some of my so called friends. When no one else is around they come to talk to me....... so ofc i talk back because that's just who i am! But when a certain person walks in they drop the whole conversation and walk over to them....leaving me to wait and see if this trash will ever make it to the recycling bin or be put into the garbage heap. Sorry if im being kinda...... self centered i just want to tell some one this. No need to feel sorry for me or i might feel like i hurt someone do to my bad kindness.... or something idk at the moment.