on my trip i saw this person [stereotypically fem looking] and they were trying on a scarf or a hat- and they lifted up theyre arms- and they saw that i was staring at their unshaved armpits- and they had their mask down so i could see the look of "damn im abt to fucking cry pls stop staring" so i liften up my arms to "strech" so they could see my arm pit hairs- and- i now have a 22 yr old enby friend :)