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tw// rape




[even tho this was a while ago now i feel like i still need to say]
i was accused of rape by an ex gf of mine
i dont have any information behind it but i would like to share my part of it
im honestly REALLY scared of posting this bc i could loose alot of great friend bc of it so please understand what im risking to tell u all this
i dont think ive ever done anything with out telling the other person to stop when they need/want
i tell ppl to tell me to fuck off if im making them uncomfortable if i feel like im taking it the smallest bit too far i stop then and there
they were breaking up with me for i dont even know what reason but oh well
they had told me i didnt care i never talked abt my issues [i never do that with anyone rlly so idk why ur so special] i had said something that got her REALLY mad and thats when she accused me of raping her
i remember getting sexual with her ONCE [i have bad memory so there could be other times and ive just forgotten] and i vividly remember telling her to tell me to stop if she wanted and asking if it was ok
and they said it was ok and never told me to stop

obviously saying this is rlly hard bc of the amount of accused rapist that have never been bought to justice and just the absolute SHIT system so they get like a year in prison for raping or sometimes just community services and yes even nothing at all

i felt like ppl should know abt this and uh yeah i think thats all